When interviewers meet a leadership candidate, their first judgment is not about credentials.
It is about trust.
This happens quickly and often outside awareness. Research in social psychology consistently shows that first impressions are dominated by two dimensions: warmth and competence. Amy Cuddy, Susan Fiske, and Peter Glick identified these as the primary axes along which people evaluate others, accounting for the majority of variance in social judgments (Cuddy, Fiske, & Glick, 2008).
Warmth answers one question.
Can I trust this person.
Competence answers another.
Can they deliver.
The order matters.
Across studies, warmth is assessed first (Cuddy et al., 2013). From an evolutionary perspective, this makes sense (Cuddy, 2016). Determining whether someone intends harm or cooperation had to precede any evaluation of skill or strength. That sequencing persists in modern professional contexts, including interviews.
If trust is not established, competence is discounted.
Understanding how first impressions form in the first 7 seconds reveals why this dynamic is so powerful.
Why Competence Alone Is Not Enough
Candidates often assume that senior roles prioritize results above all else.
The data does not support that assumption.
Cuddy’s research shows that competence evaluated in the absence of warmth often triggers wariness rather than admiration (Cuddy et al., 2013). Individuals perceived as highly capable but cold tend to elicit envy or distrust (Cuddy, Fiske, & Glick, 2008). Their skills are viewed as potential threats rather than assets.
This pattern has been observed repeatedly in organizational research.
In leadership studies involving tens of thousands of evaluations, Zenger and Folkman found that leaders rated as effective were far more likely to score high on warmth than on competence alone. In fact, among more than 50,000 leaders analyzed, fewer than one tenth of one percent were seen as highly effective while also being strongly disliked (Zenger & Folkman, 2013).
That is not a rounding error.
It is a signal.
At junior levels, competence dominates. Execution matters most. Being the smartest person in the room can carry you forward.
At senior levels, that advantage disappears.
By the time someone is interviewing for an executive role, competence is assumed. Every candidate has a track record. The differentiator becomes whether people want to work with you and whether they trust you with influence.
Zenger and Folkman’s analysis of 360-degree feedback illustrates this shift clearly. Frontline supervisors were more often rated higher in competence than warmth (67%). Senior executives showed the opposite pattern, with 61% rated higher in warmth than competence (Zenger & Folkman, 2014). As leaders move up, warmth becomes increasingly predictive of success.
Not instead of competence.
In addition to it.
This is part of what executives are listening for that candidates rarely understand.
Likability Is Not a Soft Extra
There is a persistent belief that likability is optional at the top.
It is not.
Large-scale interview analyses, including Textio’s review of more than 10,000 hiring decisions, found that candidates who received offers were 12 times more likely to be described as likable or having a great personality, even when technical qualifications were similar or weaker (Textio, 2025).
This does not mean interviewers ignore skill.
It means skill is filtered.
By the time decisions are made, the question often shifts from “Can they do the job?” to “Do we want this person in the room when things are difficult?”
Boards and hiring panels rarely articulate this explicitly. They experience it as hesitation or alignment. As a feeling that something fits or does not.
Those feelings are not random.
They reflect warmth judgments.
In executive interviews, trustworthiness becomes part of competence. The ability to build confidence in others is itself a leadership capability.
This connects to how to research the person interviewing you to understand what warmth signals they value.
What Interviewers Are Actually Watching For
Interviewers are not tallying smiles or measuring friendliness.
They are looking for signals.
Eye contact that suggests engagement rather than dominance.
Tone that conveys confidence without aggression.
Listening that signals judgment rather than performance.
Nonverbal behavior carries disproportionate weight early. Studies on interpersonal perception show that posture, facial responsiveness, and vocal cadence shape impressions before content is processed (VSkills, 2023). A calm, measured tone tends to be associated with honesty and stability. Excessive intensity or speed is often read as insecurity or force.
Listening behavior matters more than most candidates expect.
Candidates who interrupt, lecture, or rush to demonstrate expertise often undermine their own credibility. Those who pause, acknowledge questions, and respond thoughtfully tend to be perceived as both warmer and more competent.
This is not accidental.
Leadership research consistently links perceived effectiveness to the ability to make others feel heard. In interviews, that dynamic begins immediately.
Understanding why silence is one of the strongest interview signals helps explain this pattern.
Similarly, talking faster feels confident but reads as uncertain to interviewers evaluating warmth.
Balancing the Two Without Overcorrecting
Most experienced professionals lean naturally toward one side.
Some emphasize expertise and analysis.
Others emphasize connection and rapport.
Both extremes carry risk.
Over-indexing on competence can come across as distance. Over-indexing on warmth can raise doubts about authority. The balance is not achieved by muting one trait but by making the weaker one more visible.
This requires awareness, not performance.
Candidates with a reserved style often need to signal warmth more clearly. That can be as simple as explicit appreciation, visible engagement, or acknowledging shared challenges. Candidates with a naturally personable style often need to anchor their warmth with clear, decisive statements about outcomes and responsibility.
Neither approach requires acting.
Both require intention.
Stories are one place where balance shows up naturally. Describing outcomes alongside how teams were supported, conflicts handled, or trust built communicates both dimensions at once. The goal is not to impress. It is to be legible.
Interviewers are trying to predict how it will feel to work with you.
This is part of how interviewers decide you are senior in the first few minutes.
Understanding why over-preparing can make you sound less competent reveals how rehearsed delivery undermines warmth.
Physical Signals Matter
Body language shapes both warmth and competence perceptions simultaneously.
Open posture signals approachability. Controlled movement signals composure (VSkills, 2023). The combination communicates confidence without dominance.
In virtual settings, these signals translate differently. Your interview setup sends signals you never intended, and even your camera angle changes how confident you appear.
Learning how to make eye contact on Zoom becomes essential for projecting both warmth and competence in remote interviews.
Even small details like having water during an interview can signal composure and warmth simultaneously.
The Constraint That Does Not Go Away
None of this guarantees an outcome.
Bias exists. Warmth cues are interpreted differently across cultures and personalities. Some judgments will not break in your favor regardless of effort.
What research makes clear is narrower than that.
Warmth is assessed before competence.
Trust gates credibility.
At senior levels, likability is not optional.
Ignoring that reality does not make interviews more objective.
It just makes outcomes harder to predict.
And most interview decisions are already being shaped long before anyone says it out loud.
Managing your energy before a high-stakes interview helps you show up with the balance that executive interviews require.
Understanding how to answer questions you did not prepare for demonstrates both warmth and competence under pressure.
References
Cuddy, A. J., Fiske, S. T., & Glick, P. (2008). Warmth and competence as universal dimensions of social perception: The stereotype content model and the BIAS map. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 40, 61-149. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0065-2601(07)00002-0
Cuddy, A. J., Kohut, M., & Neffinger, J. (2013). Connect, then lead. Harvard Business Review, 91(7/8), 54-61. https://hbr.org/2013/07/connect-then-lead
Cuddy, A. J. (2016). Harvard psychologist Amy Cuddy says people judge you on 2 criteria. Business Insider. https://www.businessinsider.com/harvard-psychologist-amy-cuddy-how-people-judge-you-2016-1
Zenger, J., & Folkman, J. (2013). I’m the boss! Why should I care if you like me? Harvard Business Review. https://hbr.org/2013/05/im-the-boss-why-should-i-care
Zenger, J., & Folkman, J. (2014). Warmth or competence: Which leadership quality is more important? Zenger Folkman. https://zengerfolkman.com/articles/warmth-or-competence-which-leadership-quality-is-more-important/
Textio. (2025). New research finds the most likable candidate gets the job—even if they’re not the most qualified. Textio Blog. https://textio.com/blog/new-research-finds-the-most-likable-candidate-gets-the-job-even-if-theyre-not-the-most-qualified
VSkills. (2023). Connect and influence tutorial. VSkills Certification. https://www.vskills.in/certification/tutorial/connect-and-influence/
Balance Trust and Capability
Warmth opens the door, but a strategic 90-day plan proves you can execute. Professionals who demonstrate both dimensions walk into interviews as complete candidates. Someone people trust and someone who delivers results.



